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Judgment of others is poorly used energy.  Are you a judge? Is this an Olympic sport? Are you a figure skating judge giving a score on his triple sow cow? Nope. If you are judging others, you are projecting your own insecurities and trying to make others feel bad about something you wish you had.  […]

We spoke about your alter ego. Let’s call him Dave or Sheila.  When you look at yourself in the mirror, or at yourself when in your birthday suit, what are your thoughts? Do you speak highly of yourself? Or point out what’s wrong? When you are about to start something new, do you talk yourself

Kids point fingers and blame others. Adults take responsibility—they own their mistakes, learn from them, and move forward. Blaming others is a quick way to trap yourself in an emotional rut. True growth comes from the discomfort of owning your actions. It builds resilience and emotional strength. Instead of looking for the easy way out

Self-doubt often stems from a fear of failure. It can arise from a lack of confidence, past experiences, or the belief that we are incapable of achieving our goals. When we convince ourselves that success is out of reach, we may not even attempt to try. But here’s the truth: our mindset plays a crucial

Feeling anger is natural. What makes it toxic is when you don’t take the time to break it down and understand its root cause. Losing your cool is like driving a car without your hands on the wheel in thick fog. What do you think is going to happen? To regain control, you need to

Resistance is a tool used by those who think results happen by accident. While you are on your third donut, staring at your gym bag, do you think those shoes will magically end up on your feet and some wizardry will transport you to the gym, dripping in sweat and satisfied from a hard workout?

What if some of the greatest teams in history never showed up to the championship because they feared losing? What if legendary athletes refused to take the shot because they might miss? What if innovators, artists, and dreamers never released their work into the world because they worried no one would like it? It sounds

Fear is not your enemy—it’s a natural response designed to protect you. Anyone who claims they feel no fear is either lying or fooling themselves. Put that person in a tank with a shark and see if they can simply breathe their way out of that one. Fear is real, and it has a purpose.

Comparing yourself to others or believing you’re not good enough only holds you back. It keeps you stuck, unfocused, and disconnected from what truly matters—becoming the best version of yourself. We live in a digital world. If you’re reading this, you’re part of it. A world where likes and comments can feel like validation. Is

F#%@ perfect. Perfect people don’t exist. Perfect scores might, but let’s face it—we’re not test results, and life isn’t a competition to ace. If someone claims to be perfect or projects an image of perfection, how can you even relate to that? Perfection is unrelatable. It’s the cracks in our facades and the quirks in